Compared to 50 years ago, today's parents have generally abdicated their mentorship stature with children. In families coming out of the depression, children relied upon their parents for the development of their character, values, sense of purpose and right and wrong -- hence the expression, "As right as Mom and apple pie." When I was doing prep school admissions 56 years ago, most kids would identify their purpose in life: "To be the best I can be, to help others and leave the world a better place." Back then, parents were confident in their moral authority and considered schools their allies. They might well say to a teacher, "If he gives you any trouble, you know where his fanny is." Then, after Sputnik, attitudes began to change. Acceptance to top colleges became the goal, with academic achievement the means. Helping others was hardly mentioned. When I asked applicants why they wanted to come to our school, this became the t...
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